Judith WoodmanThis is a question I’ve been curious about for a while. Why are controlling people the way they are? We all know the types who strive to the higher positions in local councils and national governments, the people who enjoy controlling others, telling them what to do, and are happy to use force. But where do they come from? What is it about their childhoods and upbringings that make them that way? Or is it an innate genetic thing? Or do all people have that desire somewhere in them?

I ask because I genuinely don’t think I’ve ever felt a desire to control or force people to do what I want. And None of my friends seem to be that way either, in fact most people I meet aren’t like that. It seems to be the exception, not the norm, to want to control people so badly you’ll use state violence, and pursue positions of power to get your own way.

Imagine a local council worker who finds out that their next door neighbour does cocaine in the evenings after work from time to time, immediately they phone the police in an attempt to get their neighbour arrested and charged. Where does that person come from? What are their motivations? Why on earth do they care?

Thoughts in the comments please, I appreciate any discussion on the matter.